Marriage Life

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Married Life...parang weather sa massachusetts...pabagobago ng klima. Di ko masabi kung kailan may sumpong hubby ko.

Marriage Life:
i'll not share my married life but i wanna say im happy...


pls read this article....its help me a lot..i just wanna share

Immature love says: "I love you because I need you."
Mature love says: "I need you because I love you."
~ Erich Fromm

1. Love Comes First: Physical love is good, but there has to be genuine spiritual love also in your heart. Your immediate neighbor is your own spouse. So let charity begin at home and set an example by loving your spouse first and foremost. Follow the scripture: "Love thy neighbor as thyself".

2. Narrow the Gulf: Whether it is a love marriage, arranged marriage or forced marriage, differences are bound to arise. Both of you come from different backgrounds, upbringings and environments. You must be ready to overlook the sharp differences, lapses or shortcomings.

3. Forgive & Forget: Remember, to forgive is divine, and keep doing it, even if you have to repeat this process for infinite times.

4. Begin the Day Cool: Early in the morning, both spouses should try to remain calm and cool. No discussions or arguments in the early morning hours.

5. Silence Can Save: When you leave home for work in the morning, be at your best behavior. If one of you is provoked or complains, silence is the best answer. Conversely, you can say, "We will discuss it in the evening".

6. Inquire & Appreciate: After you return home, inquire and take interest in one another's activity during the day: "How was your day?" You must show your genuine appreciation and sympathy. Top it with a pleasant smile.

7. Listen & Sympathize: Do listen to your spouse attentively and sympathetically. Never ignore. Even at your place of work, if you get a telephone call from your partner, be polite and courteous, in spite of your busy schedule.

8. Don't Forget to Compliment: Make use of "Thank you", "Well done", "You have done a good job", and "I am sorry", as frequently as is necessary. Be generous in your praise and compliments.

9. Don't Compare: Do not enter into comparisons. No one is 100% perfect or 100% imperfect. We all have flaws and shortcomings. Always look at the good qualities of your spouse.

10. Keep Smiling: Be cheerful and smile away your problems. Give a smile as often as you can. Only a human person is endowed with this blessing. Animals do not have this rare faculty. Did you know you use only 20 muscles for a smile but 70 muscles for a frown? So, keep smiling!

Marriage life masarap n mahirap kase di naman lagi masaya may away din minsan perk pagnagbati napaka sweet .... Isa lang ang natutunana ko sa pag aasawa kaylangan pagnag kagalit kayo wag nyong paabutin sa pagtulog dapat bago kayo matulog napag usapa nyo n kung ano ang pinag aawayan nyo kase mahirap n pagnakahiga kayo n pareho kayong nakatalikod sa isat isa parehlang kayong nagbabastusan ... Married n ako ng 7 years pero pag nag aaway km pinag uusapan nmin yung tampuhan nmin before km matulog ... At di nmib pinapakita sa mga anak nmin n nag aaway km

"I love being married. It's so great to find one special person you want to be with for the rest of your life."
"A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, and always with the same person." ILOVE MY HUSBAND SO MUCH!!!

masarap ang may asawa kaso malas lang talaga ako

mearcoise wrote:

Married Life...parang weather sa massachusetts...pabagobago ng klima. Di ko masabi kung kailan may sumpong hubby ko.

weather ng Washington ganyan din! i know the feeling!

hindi tama yung sabihin nilang love will mend everything--sa pag aasawa hindi laging ganon-that s the reality

yes andyan ang love--no contest to that. but because of imperfections talaga, may instances na magkakabanggaan.

and yet masaya na malungkot, na nakakatawa.

sometimes nga parang nagbabahay bahayan lang--pero totohanan na yun kasi mg asawa na kayo hahha

married life k d ganun ka bongga at d rin ganun ka boring!!kumbaga nsa middle lng.mrming trials but nalalagpasan nmn nmin lhat. aswa ko is mapagpasensya which is advantage skin kc ako tlga mdli mag init ng ulo.so sia lgi ang nagdodown pag nagkaka misunderstanding kmi!!!what im happy so much with my hubby is khit mag kaaway kmi basta gagawa sia ng dcision kinukunsulta tlga ako and mostly yng opinyon ko ang nasusunod..hehe

i feel bad for those maagang nag aasawa tapos nauuwi sa hiwalayan. ang kawawa yung bata. well we cant blame them kung anjan na yan.

sa mga nag asawa naman ng maaga tapos sila pa rin ang magksama sa haba ng panahon--impressive yan. saludo ak dyan. kasi challenging ang pag - aasawa. to think na madami sila madadaanang unos and yet mgkasama p rin, whew.